What is Romance?by Margaret West
I write paranormal and romance novels. The question I ask today is...What is Romance? To define it, romance is the very essence of life. Without it your love life will never be complete. It brings a sort of identity to your relationship. An elderly man holding the hand of his elderly wife. They’ve probably done that for years, yet still, they need that closeness. So where does romance come from? Grand gestures, flowery words? No, it comes from the heart. It’s nice to have a man open a door for you, buy you flowers for no other reason than he wanted to.
In the daily grind of life it’s possible to forget about each other. That flame that once burned in your heart begins to diminish to a pale glow and suddenly you find yourself not knowing each other anymore. To hold onto your love, there has to romance and that’s what I try and put into all my novels. When the real world gets too much to bear sometimes it’s nice into slip into a fictional reality. Read as a love story unfolds with all its twists and turns..
Full of tears, laughter and disappointments, my latest release Spirit Intervention is a comedy romance. When a mother from the spirit world tries to change her daughters love interest, havoc ensues and if she doesn’t put it right, her Grandchildren will never be born.
Buy links
Abigail Cottage: Amazon http://www.amazon.co.uk/Abigail-Cottage-Margaret-West/dp/1907963049/ref=sr_1_7?s=books&ie=UTF8&qid=1292601645&sr=1-7
Hedge-Witchery Books: http://www.hedge-witcherybooks.com/page18.htm
Spirit Intervention: http://www.eternalpress.biz and soon from Amazon
Her love for literature extends from writing to reading and is always willing to embrace new ideas and philosophies. She likes nothing more then to sit with a good book in the quiet realms of the countryside, with her dogs, Odin and Chester. A true animal lover, Margaret’s warmth and sensitivity is reflected in her writing.
Visit Margaret online at her web site: www.margaretwest.net; her writers blog: http://margaret-paranormalromanceauthor.blogspot.com/, her spiritual blog: http://magsx.blogspot.com/ or on Facebook: http://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=730523124#!/margaretwest.Author
14 comments:
Welcome Margaret! Have a nice cup of cappuccino to warm you up! I'm freezing, lol.
Love those covers - beautiful!
What is Romance? To my mind romance is the unexpected flowers, that special look that says it all, a quiet night in watching a movie that he has let you pick even knowing that it'll be a weepy. But for me it's going all weak at the knees when you are going to see that special someone again.
Hi cate
thanks for having me. Slurps coffee..ahh, a caffine hit is just what I need.
Country queen, you are a true romanctic :-)
Romance for me is someone who loves you unconditionally.
Romance, to me, is knowing that your other half is always there for you, no matter the circumstances. Someone who will listen without condemnation and offer support.
Nice post, Margaret.
Hi Cate.
Romance and love, love and romance - two integral concepts, and yet you can have one without the other. You can romance someone you don't love. And you can love someone you don't romance.
So, how do you know when love is love and not mere physical attraction? How do you know when you're not being romanced for all the wrong reasons?
Romance, I think, can be many things - the partner who sees how bad your day has been and offers to relieve you of your burdens; the lover who surprises you with an unexpected night out or a day off; the hug for no reason other than someone loves you. It doesn't have to scream its presence with candy and flowers and diamonds - it weaves itself into the fabric of our lives and makes them that much better.
That is how I see romance.
Hi Margaret,
Wonderful post about romance. I agree with Country Queen. "But for me it's going all weak at the knees when you are going to see that special someone again."
Good Monday morning everyone. Definitely need a cup of coffee on this cold day. Margaret, congrats on the release. Cate, I like the new look.
Romance, to me, is my husband taking the child so I can have some me time. I come back from the movies or coffee or whatever and feel rejuvenated and so in love with dh.
Enjoyed your post,Margaret. To me romance and love are intertwined, yet completely different. Romance is the chocolates or roses received from a lover or would be lover. Love on the other hand is the partner who's there even during your darkest hour. Someone whom you don't need chocolates or roses from because you know they are faithful and loyal now matter what.
Romance is still seeing your husband after 50 years as that handsome man you fell in love with.
Hi Cate and Margaret! I nominated both of you for the Stylish Blog Award! Please visit my blog to see how to accept your award: http://heatherkuehl.blogspot.com
Hi Margaret,
Romance, you certainly described it very eloquently.
regards
Margaret
Thanks for your comments everyone. Tonight I'll pick the best comment and send you a thank you gift from moi.
Heather..thank you..rushing to you now xx
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